| Location | Barnsley |
| Age | 22 years |
| Date of Birth | 3/1985 |
| Date of Death | 9/2007 |
| Visitors | 7,784 since 13/01/2008 |
| Creator |
Name: Rebecca (Becci) Bisby
Passed away: 20th September, 2007
Age: 22
Occupation: Finance Administrator
Lived in Barnsley
Died after a short illness from bowel cancer
I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY A VERY BIG THANKYOU TO EVERYONE FOR THEIR KIND WORDS & SUPPORT, ESPECIALLY OVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS (BEEN HAVING PROBLEMS WITH INTERNET DUE TO CHANGING NETWORKS) READING THESE BEAUTIFUL MESSAGES DO KEEP ME GOING & I KNOW BECCI HAS MADE SOME LOVELY NEW FRIENDS, THANKYOU TO EVERYONE, (WE SHOULD BE BACK TO NORMAL AS FROM MONDAY)
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Becci was born on the 27th March 1985. She was a very bright, bubbly girl with the biggest personality and she made everyone laugh. She lived life to the full, and had a good job with a bright future ahead of her. Everyone who met Becci loved her for being Becci.
She loved being with friends and going out and enjoying herself like any ordinary young woman would. After celebrating her 21st Birthday, things started to change. Beccis first symptoms were sickness, diarrhoea and stomach pains. Over the next few months she was in and out of hospital being sent home each time with no explanation of what was causing her symptoms. Admitted again, the doctors finally decided to operate on Tuesday 3rd October, the worst wed been expecting was Chrones disease. Our worlds came crashing down when the diagnosis was bowel cancer. Naturally, this was a total shock, how could this happen to a 21 year old? This was supposed to be an older persons disease - or so we thought! No matter what, we were going to fight this head on, wed get through this together, thats when we received our next shock her cancer couldnt be cured. It could only be controlled with chemotherapy to slow the progression down. Being the person she was she didnt want anyone else to know, not even Ryan her brother, she wanted to be treated just the same as shed always been treated - normal. So this is what her dad and I did, it was hard bloody hard but if she could cope then we were sure we could.
In May, after 6 months of chemo, a scan showed that the cancer cells were inactive and life seemed back to normal for a while. However in August things took a drastic turn and Becci was re-admitted into hospital where she became really poorly. Becci was a real fighter, even though she was still extremely poorly we managed to bring Becci home on a couple of occasions. She kept having personal goals in her recovery and she even wanted a house-party where we invited all her close friends (and not forgetting the semi-naked butler!) everyone came in their nightwear so theyd be dressed like Becci.
Sadly, Becci was taken from us surrounded by all her loving family on 20 September, 2007.
Becci,
We have lost the most prescious gift of all, our Beautiful Daughter We would give anything to have you here with us again, we so miss your big smile, laughter,presence, your warmth. Home feels so quiet & lonely without you Becci, there is such a huge void in our lives. You gave us so much love & happiness our hearts are hurting so much its unbearable. Becci sweetheart we all love & miss you very much, but we know in our hearts you couldnt have suffered any more, just remember love, we will be together again one day & that each day is one step
closer to you
Love you Millions,
Always in our Thoughts
LOVE
MUM & DAD
& RYAN xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hey bec me again well weve ended up with another girl but a bet u already new that becci-mai is a little monster but so beautiful and so is rosie wish it cud av been rosie leigh but just rosie is fine, can u do me a big favor and luk after leannes dad martin for me please but knowin wot u 2 r like url both be having a rite gud laff round about now, missin u lots and lots and think ov u everyday sweet dreams pinky xxx
Hey Becki, Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you, not only today but every day, we wonder what you and Katie will be doing, hopefully having fun after all the suffering you went through, love to you and your family, thinking of you always xxx all our love xxxx Julie & Micky
well wot can i say bec , i didnt even kno u was poorly , i was gutted when i found out u had passed away i remember when we was little and we was at school together memories will always stay sleep tight love , rest in peace xxxxx
Miss You babes
Hi Bec Boop, not been on here for a while but there is NOT a day goes by when i dont think of you, you are my screen saver on my computer at work too haha oh and on my wall lol.
Been speaking to your Ry boy today bless him i've told him to stay single haha or get a french lass when he goes there wiv ya dad lol!
Love ya lots like jelly tots hunny! I hope you watch over me babe and visit me in my house!
Love ya becster! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Lynz xxxxxxx
Hi Becci,
When I heard what happened I was completely shocked, and so so sad and upset for many reasons.
I know we hadn't spoken in such a long time, and lost touch as we got older but there was a time when you were a big part in my life, one of my closest dearest friends.
I think of when you first moved to Mapplewell and first came to our school. You were so loud and bubbly and full of life! I think of how we all used to go out on a night, the sleepovers we had and the trouble we got into (never serious of course), but more of how you always managed to put a smile on everyone's face!
I'm sorry that we lost touch, but i'm glad for those many years we did know each other and that you were a part of my life, words will never be able to describe what that means to me.
So here's to the many happy memories that I have of you, and know that you were one of a kind! Thinking of you always Sarah xxx
Hey Bec just wanted to say hi its the first time ive been on here always found it too hard its still not the same without u and i think about u every day and always wondered what u would be upto, Banjo says hi i no ur probly watchin over him and becci-mai shes beautiful just like u hope she turns out like u when she gets older which im sure she will anyway gotta go now, sweet dreams bec luv ya lots xxx
p.s our kim is pregnant again think its a boy this time but then again u probly already no xxx
Happy Birthday Becci
Hi Becci Just wanted to wish you Happy Birthday xx
I bet you and Katie are going to have the biggest party ever tonightxxx We still find it hard to believe you and Katie never won the battle, but you both put up a really good fight xx Love to you and your family xxx Julie & Micky
Happy Birthday Becci
Although we smile and make no fuss
No one misses you more than us
And when old times we often recall
Thats when we miss you most of all.
We cannot have old days back
When we were altogether
But secret tears & loving thoughts
Will be with us forever.
Our thoughts are ever with you
Though you have passed away
And those who loved you dearly
Are thinking of you today.
Love and miss you loads sweetie. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Happy Birthday bec boop
Hi Bec, Happy Birthday to you Happy Birthday to you Happy birthday dear Becster Happy Birthday to you!
Thinking of you Bec Boop (24 old haha!
Will never forget you and love you always babe! Thinking of all your family too on this special day! Well tomorrow!!!! Love ya
Lots of Love Lynz xxxxxx
Birthday Girl soon
Hi Bec, Long time since i have been on here babe! Love you and will miss you forever - you are always in my thoughts.
Birthday Girl soon chick, i'll have a drink for you hunni and party like you would have! Love you!! xx
Oh i'm in my new house hun i hope you followed me and come see me there, i have taken your pictures with me and are in my window hun!
I still can't believe your gone Bec it's wierd i feel like some day your going to come back and see us all but i know that's not true but i like to think you still watch over us all. Love ya always Lynz xxxxxx
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